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Stop Selling Wine, Start Telling Stories: A Guide to Sales

Stop Selling Wine, Start Telling Stories: A Guide to Sales — Dropt Beer
✍️ Pascaline Lepeltier 📅 Updated: May 16, 2026 ⏱️ 5 min read 🔍 Fact-checked

Quick Answer

To move more wine, stop reciting technical specs and start solving the customer’s immediate problem. The winner in modern sales is the person who connects the bottle to the emotional context of the drinker’s evening.

  • Ask about the meal or the occasion before making a single recommendation.
  • Translate complex technical jargon into relatable flavor descriptions.
  • Focus on the story of the producer to build human connection.

Editor’s Note — Sophie Brennan, Senior Editor:

I firmly believe that most wine sales training is fundamentally broken because it treats bottles like hardware instead of moments. In my years covering the industry, I’ve watched countless retailers lose customers by lecturing them on malolactic fermentation when the shopper just wanted something that pairs with pizza. What most people miss is that wine is an emotional purchase, not a scientific one. Alex Murphy understands this better than anyone; his background in home brewing means he knows exactly how to strip away the pretension and focus on the craft. Pick one bottle tonight, study its story, and sell that story to your next guest.

The Sound of the Cork

The soft, dry pop of a cork leaving a bottle is the universal signal that the work day is finished. It is a sound that promises relaxation, a bit of indulgence, and perhaps a better dinner than you had planned. But for those of us trying to sell this experience, we often ruin the moment before it begins. We get caught up in acidity levels, tannin structures, and the specific soil composition of a vineyard in the Loire Valley. We treat wine like a chemistry exam, and in doing so, we kill the magic.

The truth is, you aren’t selling liquid in a glass. You are selling the context of the evening. If you want to master the art of wine sales, you have to stop acting like a textbook and start acting like a host. Your success depends on your ability to listen to what a customer actually needs—not what you want to show off that you know. When you shift your focus from the bottle’s stats to the customer’s intent, the sales will follow.

Listen Before You Pour

Most beginners in this industry make the fatal mistake of starting with their favorite bottle or the one with the highest margin. Don’t do this. Instead, ask a question that forces the customer to paint a picture of their night. Are they cooking? Is it a Tuesday night solo glass or a celebration? The WSET Level 1 guidelines emphasize the importance of identifying the consumer’s needs early, but I take it a step further: you need to identify the mood.

If someone says they are having a roast chicken on a rainy Tuesday, they don’t want a heavy, high-alcohol Cabernet that will put them to sleep. They want something bright, maybe a Cru Beaujolais or a crisp Chardonnay. By asking these questions, you stop being a salesperson and become a guide. You are helping them avoid a bad experience. That is a service, not a transaction.

Translate the Terroir

We’ve all been trapped in a conversation with someone using words like ‘minerality’ or ‘petrichor’ to describe a wine that just tastes like wet rocks. Stop using jargon. It alienates people. If you’re talking about a classic Sancerre, don’t talk about ‘flinty acidity.’ Tell them it tastes like the zest of a lime squeezed over a cold salad on a hot day. Make it visceral. Your job is to bridge the gap between the producer’s labor and the customer’s palate.

The Power of the Producer

People love people. When you can tell a story about the person who actually pulled the grapes off the vine, you create a connection that a shelf-talker never could. I remember visiting a small producer in the Adelaide Hills who spent three years perfecting his trellis system just to get more airflow to his Pinot Noir. When I explain that dedication to a customer, the price point of the bottle suddenly makes sense. It’s no longer just a commodity; it’s a craft product.

According to the Oxford Companion to Beer and Wine, the history of a product is often as important as the sensory input itself. Use that. Find the human element in every label you stock. Did the winemaker’s grandmother start the vineyard? Is the vineyard organic because the owner hates chemicals? These are the hooks that stick in a customer’s mind long after they’ve left your shop or bar. It’s what brings them back to dropt.beer for more advice and, eventually, back to your counter.

Know When to Stop Talking

There is a point in every sale where you have said enough. Once the customer is nodding, once they have that look of ‘okay, that sounds like exactly what I want,’ stop. Don’t add another detail. Don’t tell them about the aging process in French oak unless they ask. Over-explaining is the quickest way to talk yourself out of a sale. Let the wine speak for itself. You’ve done your job; now get out of the way.

Alex Murphy’s Take

I firmly believe that the best salesperson in any bottle shop is the one who drinks the most widely. If you only stick to what you like, you’re useless to 90% of your customers. In my experience, you should be drinking something outside your comfort zone at least once a week. I once spent a month exclusively drinking wines I thought I hated—mostly high-tannin, rustic reds—just to understand why people find them compelling. It changed how I sold them entirely. Instead of dismissing a wine as ‘too dry,’ I learned to frame it as ‘the perfect partner for a fatty ribeye.’ If you’re going to do one thing after reading this, go buy a bottle from a region you usually skip and force yourself to find three reasons to love it. Then, sell that passion to your next customer.

Frequently Asked Questions

How do I handle a customer who thinks they know more than me?

Don’t challenge them. Agree with them, validate their expertise, and then pivot to a recommendation that complements their stated preference. If they insist on a specific style, guide them toward the best version of that style you have in stock. Your goal is to make them feel smart, not to win an argument. The sale is more important than your ego.

Is it better to focus on high-end or entry-level wines?

Focus on what your local community actually drinks. If you’re in a neighborhood where people grab wine for Tuesday dinner, high-end collectibles will just gather dust. Build your reputation on being the person who can find a great $20 bottle. Once you’ve earned that trust, the same customers will come to you for the $100 bottles when they have a special occasion.

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Pascaline Lepeltier

Master Sommelier (MS), MOF

Master Sommelier (MS), MOF

Award-winning sommelier based in NYC; a champion for organic, biodynamic, and natural wines.

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